Many people marry with the thought that they will stay together forever. While there are many married couples who are able to do so, a large number end up in a divorce. At Givens Givens Sparks, we know that divorce is oftentimes inevitable and when this happens, our Tampa divorce lawyers are prepared to stand by your side. Before it reaches this level, though, there are certain steps that you can take before you file for divorce.
Discuss the Decision
Before you decide to actually divorce, talk things over with your spouse. You should be able to communicate the wishes of both partners so that you can analyze any issues with your marriage and see how you may be able to fix them. If you two determine that there is nothing you can do, you should move on to the next steps.
Gather Information on Finances
Understanding your finances is important. If you and your spouse are able to discuss the finances and determine if support is something that will be needed. See how much each spouse makes and what they put into the marriage.
Discuss Arrangements with Children
If you and your spouse are amicable, discussing the situation regarding your children is important. You can discuss issues of custody, visitation, and more. Determine where the child will live for the most part and how time will be split. This can help make the process easier.
Analyze Support Needs
Whether you discuss child support or spousal support, addressing financial needs before filing for a divorce can help make the process easier down the road. If support is needed, you and your spouse can discuss the amount to try and come up with a plan.
Determine Property Division
When divorce occurs, one of the most contentious aspects is property division. This is when it is decided who will get the house, cars, bank accounts, and other assets that the couple owns. If you are hoping for an uncontested divorce, it is better to have these conversations prior to filing. Knowing who ends up with what can cut down on the time spent in trial and the money spent on such a contentious matter.
Talk with Other Relatives About the Situation
If you have decided that you want a divorce, it can help to discuss this situation with relatives outside of your children. Whether it is for advice or to simply prepare them, talking with your family can help ease the situation and give each party a support system.
Keep a Running Document for Thoughts and Information
Writing down everything from agreements to thoughts and conversations can help keep things in line should you decide to follow through with the divorce. Verbal agreements and the various things you say are nice to hear, but having them documented can be much more beneficial.
Plan for the Future
Whether it is you or your spouse who is moving out of the home, make sure to plan for the future. Where will you live? What kind of situation will you both be in? Who makes the decisions regarding the children? These are important to know.
Speak with a Lawyer
Discuss your divorce with a lawyer. This will allow you to understand your legal options and determine which avenue is the most beneficial for your situation. Having a lawyer can also help you if matters become contentious and you need someone to represent you fully.
Really Analyze Your Situation
Before you sign the papers filing for divorce, really step back and analyze the situation. Are you doing the right thing? Are you handling it in the right manner? These are important questions to ask yourself and can help determine how you would like the rest of the situation to play out now and in the future.
Contact Givens Givens Sparks today and we will discuss your divorce as soon as possible. Our Tampa divorce lawyers are ready to guide you through the difficult process.